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Hrmph uncertainty

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I need help lol more importantly clearifications rather.

There is a certain girl I am interested, she is muslim ofcourse. Her family know me and mine pretty well. We are neighbours. The problem is this, If i even mentioned a word regarding their daughter, to marry or engagemend. They would say, yes without even questioning and what not.

My problem arises now, you see, there is another muslimah who wants to marry but she is of different culture though (I.e., not pakistani). Now there is a ******** barrier and yes, you can overcome it. Now, I only mentioned one who wants to marry me. There is another one as well :\, she is of different ethncity entirely. So that is two so far. There is a third one, she is different ethncity as well.

So thats three muslimah, that have keen interest in me. What the issue is, I feel overwhemled. I feel bad if I say no to the three, but then I contemplate, what if they were good and etc.

I just don't know what to do. Before I present any of this to my mom, I just want to be certain of what I want to do. Sometimes I feel, I am NOT ready for marriage, but sometimes I feel I am. Also, I feel bad regarding them. They should just move on and find someone else, I am just a mere average brother. There is nothing great, however they otherwise argue with me constantly.

What do I do, that is the question? I don't necessarily want to hurt their feelings. And Concerning the girl I am interested, she is younger than me :( . You see, well old members of this forum should know, I wasn't raised like regular muslim families (pakistani so to speak). Anyway, I don't know what to do with that either :\. What if she doesn't even like me and is forced to agree with her parents due to how i am, my personality and etc?

Lol, I feel like Hamlet sometimes (excluding the suicide part of course and killing the whole uncle idea :P).

Anyway, thanks for advising.

Btw, are there any pakistani (men) who have married say...an arab? or bengali? (Yep, you all probably figured the myterious ethncity by now Lol).

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