HELP im in love with my friends' brother!!!!!!!

:embarrassSalaams, i'm a practising muslimah but i cant help my feelings for my friends' brother. I would love to for him to consider me for marriage, but I dont think he feels the same way.
I'm scared to mention anything to my friend in case i ruin things with her. I dont think she feels i'm compatible with her brother, otherwise she would have mentioned summat...she knows i want to get married and her brother's looking to get married.

Anyways please help me overcome this infatuation, i sometimes cannot stop thinking about him (i know not healthy at all). I would love for him to settle down(with a pious wife who'll always keep and his family happy), i wish him all the best in this life and hereafter. i think only then will i truly start looking for my mr right and not just wait for him...?

Please advise.....