Assalamu Alaikkum,

I am not sure if this would be the best place to post this question, but I need all the help I can get before I make a decision. I am in love with this girl who belongs to shafi and I myself am Hanafi (Her parents are in search of a bride for her elder brother and they are completely ignoring Hanafi girls) But they are ready to get us married since she loves me. Moreover another issue is the family background. I am from an agriculture-****d family but I have a good job (software engineer). She is from a well to do family and all her family is like well educated and in good positions. My parents never had an opportunity to go to college, but they worked hard to impart me and my sister quality education and here I am. Her parents are skeptical whether we would be able to cope with their status(i dun know if its the right word), but all this hurts me, like I feel I am belittling myself and my family. We both love each other very much, but the whole family issue, ego, shafi-Hanafi is making me worried. Will this cause a problem in the future? Please advice.

Regards,
N shah